Betty Violet Hedges

1934 - 1992
LocationDagenham Essex
Age57 years
Cause of DeathHeart Attack
Date of Birth26/10/1934
Date of Death21/07/1992
Visitors12,224 since 09/01/2009
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My Mother, who gave me the best of her life, who cherished my secrets, my sorrows, my strife, who
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⊱♥⊰
A MOTHER'S MESSAGE
FROM HEAVEN ⊱♥⊰

I see you, darling, all the time,
I know everything you do,
Would you believe, my dearest child
I'm even closer now to you.

For I can see inside your mind,
Indeed, inside your heart,
I even know you better now,
Than I did before, sweetheart.

I've always loved you - you know that,
But maybe now I love you more,
I love the adult that you've become,
Just as I loved the child before.

I know how much you miss me, honey,
Well, I miss you, too,
I miss our talking and our laughing,
And all we used to do.

Whether you are six or sixty,
You'll always be my precious child,
You're the baby that I carried,
And the adult that's helped me smile.

What you need to understand,
Though death has taken me away,
Is that I've not left you, darling,
I am still with you today.

Honey, I could never leave you,
God, of course, would not want that,
Physically, we are apart,
But our hearts are still attached.

I love you all the time,
You cannot get away from me,
That's the way a Mother is,
Right into eternity.

Every day I'm with you
I see you from above,
And I want for you to know
How very much you're loved.


written by Virginia (Ginny) Ellis

THANKYOU PAULINE FOR THIS LOVELY VERSE X

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⊱♥⊰ «´¨`•°MUM....°•´¨`» ⊱♥⊰
.¸.•*(¸.•*´ ⊱♥⊰ `*•.¸)`*•.

THIS POEM WAS WRITTEN FOR ME BY MY SPECIAL FRIEND JO DALTON. THANKYOU JO XXX PLEASE DO NOT COPY.

My Mother's love is something
that no one can take from me
life is short the years have rushed past
Mum you are No longer at my side
As Heaven did beckon
Mum you answered the call
You walked into the light
Standing so tall
You are so loved
And missed even more
I love you dear mother
You’re the one I adore
I know you have gone away Mum
But we’ll never be apart
As Mum you will always be deep in my heart
copyrights@ Jo Dalton 2009

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Tributes For Week Starting 16th November


FOR MONDAY

Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts you’re always there.

FOR TUESDAY

I sit and wonder every day,
Why the Lord chose to call you away,
I think He saw you needed rest,
He only takes the very best.

FOR WEDNESDAY

Everyday in some small way,
Memories of you come our way,
Though absent, you are always near,
Still missed, loved, always dear.

FOR THURSDAY

Resting where no shadows fall,
In peaceful sleep he awaits us all;
God will link the broken chain,
When one by one we meet again.


FOR FRIDAY

Surrounded by friends
Yet all alone
The one I loved
God has called home

The hugs of friends
Helps ease the pain
And I know my loss
Is my loved one's gain

But tears now flow
Across my face
As I long for just
One more embrace

Then comfort comes
And I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
And I feel God's grace.


FOR SATURDAY

Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears...

It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.

My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know..
.
My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.


FOR SUNDAY

When I come to the end of the day
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared,
Miss me but let me go.

For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the maker's plan,
A step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds -
Miss me, but let me go.

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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe (Close Friend) 1 week ago

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Tributes For Week Starting 16th November


FOR MONDAY

Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts you’re always there.

FOR TUESDAY

I sit and wonder every day,
Why the Lord chose to call you away,
I think He saw you needed rest,
He only takes the very best.

FOR WEDNESDAY

Everyday in some small way,
Memories of you come our way,
Though absent, you are always near,
Still missed, loved, always dear.

FOR THURSDAY

Resting where no shadows fall,
In peaceful sleep he awaits us all;
God will link the broken chain,
When one by one we meet again.


FOR FRIDAY

Surrounded by friends
Yet all alone
The one I loved
God has called home

The hugs of friends
Helps ease the pain
And I know my loss
Is my loved one's gain

But tears now flow
Across my face
As I long for just
One more embrace

Then comfort comes
And I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
And I feel God's grace.


FOR SATURDAY

Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears...

It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.

My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know..
.
My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.


FOR SUNDAY

When I come to the end of the day
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared,
Miss me but let me go.

For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the maker's plan,
A step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds -
Miss me, but let me go.

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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe (Close Friend) 1 week ago

♥ HEARTSTRINGS ♥

When those we love go away, they never really leave us;
they are with us now, wherever we are.
Those whom we have cherished, live on forever,
for love wraps itself around the heart.
Although it's difficult now,
someday beyond our tears and all the world's wrongs;
beyond the clouds and all that we can see and touch,
we shall all understand.♥

Pauline Wheeler (Soul Mate) 1 week ago

ANGEL MONTHS


ALTHOUGH! we may not see them
and they don't make a sound
whenever they are needed
our angel is around

JANUARY'S here
which means the year's starting anew
and as always,
your angel friend is watching over you

in FEBRUARY
days are short and nights seem cold and long
but listen carefully to the breeze
you'll hear your angels song

in MARCH
the angels smile on us as buds push through the earth
renewing all our faith and hope
at this time of rebirth



in APRIL
and each blossom at this lovely time of year
is a token from the angels
just to let you know they're here

all through the month of MAY
your angel's here with you
protecting you with gentle wings
in everything you do

as these days of JUNE grow longer
and sunshine warms the land
you too can bask in warmth and love
for our angel holds your hand

all around we see the colours
and blooms of sweet JULY
a glimpse of heavens garden
from our angel friends on high

as we watch an AUGUST sunset
and wonder at God's grace
look carefully and you may see
your angel's gentle face

SEPTEMBER sees blooms fading
and clouds form in the sky
but unlike flowers,
your angels love will never fade and die

OCTOBER's leaves of furnished gold
are falling softly to the ground
and if you see white feathers too....
your angels are around

NOVEMBER's chill surrounds us now
but love will keep you warm
for your angel's wings will shield you
from any cold or storm

DECEMBER's here
and so this year will soon come to an end
but rest assured you'll always have
your very special ...
angel friend x x x

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Pauline Wheeler (Soul Mate) 1 week ago

ANGEL MONTHS


ALTHOUGH! we may not see them
and they don't make a sound
whenever they are needed
our angel is around

JANUARY'S here
which means the year's starting anew
and as always,
your angel friend is watching over you

in FEBRUARY
days are short and nights seem cold and long
but listen carefully to the breeze
you'll hear your angels song

in MARCH
the angels smile on us as buds push through the earth
renewing all our faith and hope
at this time of rebirth



in APRIL
and each blossom at this lovely time of year
is a token from the angels
just to let you know they're here

all through the month of MAY
your angel's here with you
protecting you with gentle wings
in everything you do

as these days of JUNE grow longer
and sunshine warms the land
you too can bask in warmth and love
for our angel holds your hand

all around we see the colours
and blooms of sweet JULY
a glimpse of heavens garden
from our angel friends on high

as we watch an AUGUST sunset
and wonder at God's grace
look carefully and you may see
your angel's gentle face

SEPTEMBER sees blooms fading
and clouds form in the sky
but unlike flowers,
your angels love will never fade and die

OCTOBER's leaves of furnished gold
are falling softly to the ground
and if you see white feathers too....
your angels are around

NOVEMBER's chill surrounds us now
but love will keep you warm
for your angel's wings will shield you
from any cold or storm

DECEMBER's here
and so this year will soon come to an end
but rest assured you'll always have
your very special ...
angel friend x x x

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Pauline Wheeler (Soul Mate) 1 week ago

On Angel Wings

On angel wings you do fly
On angel wings into the sky
On angel wings i do cry
Because those angel wings took you away
On angel wings the heralds sing
Is there no such lovely thing?
On angel wings you fly away.
I will see these angel wings again someday
When i am old and my time has come
On angel wings I will fly
Until I'm holding you once again
Smiling on angel wings.

Troy Nichols

Phyllis Frazier Harris (Friend) 1 week ago

♥ `*• SWEET DREAMS PRECIOUS ANGEL ♥ `*•

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___*~::.:.*.:::.*~ ****~#____ ANGEL ____# *~::.:.*.:::.*~****~
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xx~~~~~ My Wish ~~~~~

I wish upon a star so bright
You'll visit me in my dreams tonight
That you'll kiss me gently on my cheek
And whisper "goodnight now go to sleep"

I wish upon a star so bright
That you'll stay with me throughout the night
It would be a dream come true for me
If just once more my love I could see.


Copyright� Ingrid Aspey 16/8/09

Thankyou for all your support.
Have a nice weekend,
Love as always,Lynn.xxx

Lynn Charmaine Duxfields Mum (Close Friend) 2 weeks ago

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“After the rain comes a rainbow, after the darkness comes light,
after the clouds disappear is only the beautiful and the bright.
What a beautiful difference one single life has made."

♥ ★ ◦˚◦ ☆ ♥ ★ ◦˚◦ ☆ ♥

♥ `*•.� 13th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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...........|.....|..........I wish you all a good weekend,
...........|.....|..........With love as always Linda.xxx
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Linda Hutt (Friend) 2 weeks ago

IITH NOVEMBER 2009

✿..LET US REMEMBER THEM...✿

✿ 'Please wear a poppy', the lady said
and held one forth, but I shook my head.
Then I stopped and watched as she offered them there,
And her face was old, and lined with care;
But beneath the scars the years had made
There remained a smile that refused to fade.✿

✿ A boy came wistling down the street,
Bouncing along, on care free feet
His smile was full of joy and fun,
'Lady', said he, 'May I have one?'
When she pinned it on, he turned to say,
'Why do we wear a poppy today?'✿

✿ The lady smiled in her wistful way,
and answered, 'This is Rememberance Day,
And the poppy there is the symbol for,
the gallant men who died in war,
and because they died you and I are free--
Thats why we wear a poppy, you see'.✿

✿ 'I had a boy about your size,
with golden hair and big blue eyes.
He loved to play and jump and shout,
free as a bird he would race about.
As the years went by, he learned and grew
and became a man--as you will, too.' ✿

✿ 'He was fine and strong, with a boyish smile,
but he'd seemed with us such a little while
When war broke out and he went away,
I still remember his face that day.
When he smiled at me and said'Good-bye,
I'll soon be back, mom, so please don't cry'.✿

✿ 'But the war went on and he had to stay,
and all I could do was wait and pray.
His letters told of the awful fight,
(I can see it in my dreams at night),
with the tanks and guns and cruel Barbed wire,
and the mines and bullets, the bombs and fire.'✿

✿'Till at last the war was won-
and thats why we wear a poppy son'.
The small boy turned as if to go,
Then said 'Thanks lady, I'm glad to know.
That sure did sound like an awful fight,
But your Son-- did he come back alright?'✿

✿ A tear rolled down each faded cheek;
she shook her head, but didn't speak.
I slunk away in a sort of shame,
and if you were me you'd have done the same;
For our thanks, in giving, is oft delayed,
though our freedome was bought-and thousands paid.✿

✿ And so when we see a poppy worn, let us reflect on the burden borne
By those who gave their very all
and asked to answer their country's call
That we at home in peace might live.
Then wear a poppy. Remember-- and give!✿

✿ Lest we forget......✿



Copyright ~ 2009 by Blair Leger & ilovepoetry.com

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